Types of sex: 8 practices for pleasure.
Sex can be different. There is nothing shameful or wrong with desire or lack of it. You can experiment endlessly — today we will talk about what sex practices you can try and what they can give you.
1. Penetrating penico-vaginal
What is the pleasure? As you know, penico-vaginal penetrative sex is the most understandable and standard practice. And not only because it is "traditional", but it has many opportunities for enjoyment. For example, it may be important for a couple to achieve maximum intimacy during sex, to physically feel each other — penetration of the penis into the vagina allows you to satisfy this need.
Despite the wave of sexual liberation and the popularity of experimentation, there is nothing wrong with loving "regular" sex. The first place should be shared pleasure and comfort in a couple. If it's there, the rest doesn't really matter.
What's the interest? You can experiment with poses. You can find what you like for yourself, depending on your mood. If you're tired after a hard day and you don't want to give up on pleasure, there are several options for you.
Where is careful? Penile-vaginal penetrative sex includes all the risks to the physical or emotional state that may be associated with sexual practices. You can read about how to make sex not only enjoyable but also safe in a special guide from Kuprum.
2. Anal
What is the pleasure? Anal sex is any kind of sexual practice, with or without penetration, involving the anal area. Penetrative anal sex can be different: penetration can be performed with a penis, a sex toy, or a finger. The only limitation is the desire and feelings of the process, primarily of the receiving partner.
Data from one of the major American studies tells us that approximately 35% of women experienced pleasure with anal surface penetration, for example, with a finger no further than the phalanx, about 40% of women considered it pleasant to touch the anus with a finger, penis or sex toy. In addition, approximately 40% of women believed that touching the anus makes other sexual practices more enjoyable, such as vaginal sex or clitoral stimulation.
Anal stimulation can be enjoyable not only for women. According to the survey, some men also enjoy it. In addition, men can achieve orgasm by stimulating the prostate gland. It is believed that orgasm from prostate massage is more intense and diffuse than orgasm from penis stimulation, but it takes time and practice and is not liked by many men.
What's the interest? In anal sex, as in other practices, there is enough space for fantasy and experimentation. At the same time, it is not necessary to take an example from porn actors and engage in intense anal sex with deep penetration and without preparation. You can carefully and slowly explore the possibilities for pleasure — your own and your partner's — through light touches, trying different depths and intensities.
Where is careful? Anal sex, especially when penetrated by the penis, has a fairly high risk of sexually transmitted infections. For this reason, you should not give up using a condom during anal sex.
It is also important to use a water-based lubricant. There is no lubricant secreted in the rectum to ensure comfortable penetration. A lack of lubrication can cause injury and discomfort.
After anal sex, you should change a condom, wash your penis, hand, or sex toy before proceeding to vaginal sex. The ingestion of bacteria from the rectum into the vagina can cause infection.
3. Oral
What is the pleasure? Oral sex carries a special "burden" in culture. Someone treats blowjob as a symbol of "domination". Cunnilingus is considered by some people to be "unworthy of a real man."
Whether to practice oral sex or not is, of course, everyone's choice. There is an opinion — not entirely scientific — that the presence of oral sex in a couple indicates a closer and better relationship between partners. The study also finds such a relationship, moreover, it is more pronounced in men than in women, although only elderly couples participated in it.
What's the interest? Oral sex can be different too. For example, there are different blowjob techniques. Each of them can be unexpectedly pleasant for a partner. Do not focus on the "deep throat" — caressing the glans penis with the tongue can add pleasure.
Overall, according to the survey, men receive oral sex more often than women. It can be assumed that this difference is due to the fact that men often consider it shameful and "unmanly" to do cunnilingus to their partner.
At the same time, most women find oral sex enjoyable. If a person wants to make his partner cunnilingus, it is important to act gradually and give up sharp and assertive movements of the tongue. To learn more life hacks, you can read the Kuprum guide on cunnilingus.
Where is careful? It is important to remember that through oral sex, sexually transmitted infections can be transmitted and acquired. Barrier methods of contraception, such as condoms and latex wipes, are a reliable way of protection.
4. Me, you and a sex toy
What is the pleasure? Sex toys can enhance sensations during various sexual practices or be the "main player" in obtaining pleasure. Toys can help enhance pleasure, for example by increasing the number of stimulated erogenous zones. In addition, a sex toy helps a person to have fun alone with himself.
What's the interest? The main interest in sex toys lies in their variety. In recent years, the industry for their production has made significant strides forward. Now a toy can be found for almost any request, both for a man and a woman.
You can even give your partner or partner pleasure from a distance: some toys have a control function via a special remote control or an application. You may be far away, and this is no longer a reason to deny your partner mutual pleasure. In the event that you are interested in this practice, of course.
Where is careful? It is important to take proper care of toys. In addition, the toy must be washed before sex to avoid getting infections. You can read about how to properly care for sex toys in our material.
5. "Unusual" penetration
What is the pleasure? Penetrative sex can be not only with the penetration of a penis or a toy — you can add variety to your intimate life with the help of fingering and fisting.
Fingering — penetration with a finger or fingers, fisting — completely with a brush. Fingering and fisting can be not only vaginal, but also anal. In this case, you can try to connect oral stimulation or a toy — everything is limited by fantasy and consent — both yours and your partner's.
What's the interest? With the help of these practices, partners can feel each other more closely, get acquainted with erogenous zones and learn to listen to desires.
For a very long time, hand sex was considered somehow wrong, inferior. We want to remind you that you have the right to choose sexual practices based on what pleases you. Sex is never right or "not so good."
Where is careful? If the practice is not accurate, injuries may occur and the receiving partner may experience unpleasant sensations. Remember this — accuracy and mutual willingness to listen to each other's feelings are important.
6. Virtual sex
What is the pleasure? Being far from each other, couples often try to maintain intimacy and intimacy in a relationship through virtual sex. It can be by video, by phone, or by correspondence. The main thing is to turn on your imagination and discard all patterns, relax and have fun.
What's the interest? You can talk about your wildest fantasies, imagine the most unexpected experiments. Say out loud what you were shy about, but have long wanted to try. Sharing virtual sex helps you get aroused and enjoy the process more.
Where is careful? Here we must not forget about the security of personal data. It is recommended to use a private and secure chat, which is deleted immediately after the end of the correspondence.
You should not leave nude photos in messengers and social media conversations: if the page is hacked, they may fall into the wrong hands.
In addition, it is important to be confident in the honesty of the partner with whom you enter into a virtual intimate relationship. You should not provide a stranger with information about yourself that can be used against you in some way or used as a blackmail tool.
7. Tantric sex
What is the pleasure? Tantric sex is a part of traditions that go back to ancient practices aimed at spiritual development and enlightenment. The purpose of tantric sex is not to achieve orgasm or pleasure through the body. Someone with the help of this practice wants to get personal development, soul growth and a real deep connection in a couple. For some, tantric sex is nothing more than a way to diversify their intimate lives.
What's the interest? The point is that one must prepare for tantric sex, first of all morally. An attitude and a conscious approach are important for practice. Mindfulness practices, such as yoga and meditation, will help you tune in. It makes sense to delve into the teachings, understand the traditions and find out where they come from and where they lead to.
Where is careful? Tantric sex is not like other practices, this should not be forgotten. If this is more of an interesting experience for you, for example, then for someone such a practice may be part of their deep beliefs and worldview. Be careful about the people with whom you share your thoughts and experiences.
8. What if there are more than two of you?
What is the pleasure? Group sex, or threesome sex, is a practice that not everyone is ready for. She will bring pleasure if you come to her at will, with interest and excitement.
There can be many feelings and sensations in the process: desire, excitement, awkwardness, jealousy. All this is a normal part of the process. Remember: you can stop and give up at any stage, change your mind. If you feel uncomfortable and want to leave, that's what you should do.
Speak directly about your desires, ask for the active consent of your partners. Openness and the ability to conduct a dialogue will save all participants in the process from unpleasant after-sex reactions.
What's the interest? You can call it self-knowledge. If you are completely against such practices, this is completely normal. But if you find yourself genuinely wanting to gain such an experience, you can explore yourself and your reactions to different processes in it.
Where is careful? Psychological comfort and physical safety are at the top of everything. Keep this in mind when making certain decisions, giving or withdrawing your consent.
9. What is the result
Sex can be different. If you approach it with interest and desire, and all participants in the process, including you, feel safe and give active consent to what is happening, you can experiment the way you want and feel.
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